You know you should be âdoing more dating.â But youâve never done online dating before. Maybe youâve even heard horror stories.
If you knew exactly what to do or how to do it, your calendar would be full of dates to the Brooklyn Botanical Garden and glamorous exhibit openings on the Upper East Side.
(And itâs not that youâre a control freak⊠but you donât want to hire a professional matchmaker, because no one else really knows your taste like you do.)
Honestly, too much of the time you spend on âfinding a partnerâ is spent buying clothes for dates, scrolling the personal ads, and agonizing over whether to answer.
You need to get out of your own way and just DO MORE ONLINE DATING STUFF.
Imagine how great your online dating life would be if you just worked on it for ten minutes a day!
If you donât know what you should be doing, weâll tell you. If you already know what to do, weâll help you draw up an action plan. And then, as you go on more and more dates, we'll help you revise that plan. đ
Hi, I'm Lydia (software engineer, Yale â12). I met my husband on Tinder after ten long years of online dating. Every online dating catastrophe that you can think of, I have experienced firsthand. But I'm convinced that online dating is still the best way to find your person.
Not a passive dating strategy. Not months of overthinking in therapy before going on a single date. A practical, high-velocity system designed to get you out of your head and onto 3 GREAT dates.
01 | Step 1: Craft Your Hook & Profile
We throw out the generic âI love outdoors and travelingâ bios. We overhaul your profile photos and write snappy, witty captions that spark real curiosity. From a manâs perspective, most profiles are impenetrableâwe build a profile that gives him a direct, undeniable reason to reach out.
02 | Step 2: Master the High-Intent Swipe
Finding great matches is a numbers game. We build a structured daily swipe routine (like a quick 10-minute daily workout) to get your profile in front of maximum eyes while keeping your time investment low.
03 | Step 3: Message First & Cut Through the Noise
Waiting for men to make the move? Not anymore. We teach you how to message matches directly with high-intent, targeted questions that weed out low-effort guys immediately and lead straight to a date invitation.
04 | Step 4: Pipeline & Calendar Management
Dating anxiety comes from scarcity. We set up your calendar so youâre juggling multiple dates at once. By dating 2 to 5 people simultaneously, you stay relaxed, relieve first-date pressure, and show up as your authentic self.
05 | Step 5: Refine, Repeat, and Find Your Person
We take real feedback from your early dates to fine-tune your profile. Youâll filter out the ones who donât fit and fill your calendar with genuine, high-effort people who show up on time, respect your boundaries, and make you want to go on a second date.
Itâs a simple idea with profound impact: for five weeks, you'll attend a thirty-minute weekly call with a dating coach â plus daily, 10-minute challenges â to get more â and better â results from your online dating efforts.
